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  DOES PRIDE HELP US OR HURT US?

by Jennifer Matos

In the season of national and world-wide Pride events, a new discussion is brewing. That is, does Pride help us or hurt us?

Taking part in the discussion are members of the LGBT community who are seated on different sides of the rainbow fence.

Critics of Pride events claim that such events place an undue emphasis on sexual orientation. They state that they would like to see less vociferous activism, allowing the GLBT community to access to the more mainstream. Other views are that Pride events cater to homophobic viewpoints. Some observe parades featuring men and women in what they deem indiscreet and immodest displays, as acts that fortify social conservative sentiments that LGBT members are “deviant”. These critics would like to see programming that does not center on sexual orientation as the focal point of one’s identity.

Supporters of Pride events feel that “Pride” is an appreciation and celebration of diversity and further than that, the diversity within diversity. They stress that Pride events feature an array of lifestyles and images from “Dykes on Bikes” to firefighters, health professionals, educators and parents. Pride supporters offer a historical perspective defining the struggle for equality as a civil rights issue. They look at the present and the silence that is still impressed upon the community as well as the fact that the gay community is now joined by so many straight allies—not as voyeurs or “gawkers”—but as fellow supporters. They express a hope that in the future, homosexuals are not showcased by such outlets like the media as social deviants, but as human beings who are deserving of equal rights and representation available to straight constituencies. Advocates for Pride state that Pride is not a display for the media, or to foster homophobia and misunderstanding. Their argument is that Pride is strictly for members and supporters of the LGBT community to celebrate the beauty of their individuality and their unity.

Perhaps these contradictory views underscore the concept of multiplicity within the GLBT community in that even members of the same group can hold differing opinions.

 

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2006-06-27, 13:18:00 PM
From: Proudmomof2
Comments: We just celebrated in San Francisco this weekend. The crowd was large & friendly. Everyone was there to celebrate who we are, how far we have come & to commit to the work we have left to do. There did seem to be a large increase in the number of gay parents attending with their children, both men and women. It was a joy to have them to celebrate with and share this experience with our 2 1/2 yr. old son. On a sad note though, we relise that we do not feel comfortable bringing our teenage daughter, and in a few years will have to decide not to attend or to find someone suitable to babysit our son. There are always the chosen few who decide for personal reasons that celebrating in the nude is the only way to celebrate. Namely the men. For years we have heard many people complain about these "5 or 6" and wonder why this expression is so nessary when the rest of us can celebrate who we are with our clothes on.... or at least something on! It causes some conflict for us in deciding to include family, friends but mostly our children. I hope one day, we can celebrate as a family.



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